Self harm in adolescents is often misunderstood, and many parents feel shocked or unsure of what to do when they discover their child is hurting themselves. The truth is that self harm is usually a coping strategy, not a sign of attention seeking or a desire to die. Teens who self harm are often trying to manage overwhelming emotions they do not know how to express. By learning the signs, approaching with compassion, and offering steady support, parents can make a meaningful