

Brenda Deaves
Grief Counsellor, Registered Psychotherapist - Qualifying BA MACP
Authentic Living Phone:
226-224-0301
Email:
Office Address:
130 Thompson Rd., London, ON
Areas of Focus:
Couples/Family Therapy, Alcohol Use, Anger Management, Anxiety, Divorce, Grief, Women's Issues, Life Transitions, Chronic Pain & Illness, End of Life
Welcoming new clients virtually and in-person
A Bit About Me
Hi there,
I'm Brenda Deaves.
As a therapist I specialize in the areas of loss and grief, trauma, self-sabotaging behaviours, and difficult life transitions, along with anxiety and depression.
I work with clients from a person-centered approach, where my main priority is to create a safe environment for the two of us to work from collaboratively, and at a pace that works for you.
Raised among a family of immigrants in rural Ontario, the values of resilience, perseverance, and community mindedness were instilled in me from a very young age. I have carried these values with me throughout my life and career, and into my practice as a psychotherapist.
My passion for counselling comes from what I have lived, studied and learned, in part through my own direct experiences with loss, addiction, anger and perfectionism. These lived experiences are what help me to show up for my clients authentically and compassionately.
I hold a Bachelor of Arts in Thanatology from the University of Western Ontario, and a Masters of Arts in Counselling Psychology from Yorkville University. I am a member in good standing with the College of Registered Psychotherapists of Ontario.
Prior to joining the practice at Authentic Living London I worked previously in long term care, and I continue to facilitate a bereavement support group. These experiences have further developed my deep capacity for compassion, and my ability to be truly present with clients while sharing in their painful feelings. ​
Although the neuroscience geek in me recognizes that change can be very hard, I firmly believe that it is possible for each and every one of us, regardless of our age or our life circumstance. I am here to walk beside you in these difficult times of transition.
I am available at Authentic Living London for both in-person and virtual sessions, and invite you to connect with me for a free 15 minute phone consultation to get started. ​
Therapeutic Approach
Sessions with Brenda take a human-centered, existential and holistic approach. Her passion as a practitioner lies in helping clients live more authentically through gaining greater self-understanding in their search for meaning, purpose and self-determination. Brenda draws upon therapeutic modalities including Internal Family Systems and Narrative Therapy in her practice.

Areas of Focus
Life Transitions
​Divorce and breakups, shifting family or social dynamics and identity changes can all lead to feelings of loss. We offer specialized therapy in London, Ontario to help you name what’s missing, honour your experience, and move through change with support.
Anxiety
Anxiety can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to manage it alone. We provide anxiety counselling in London, Ontario that helps you identify triggers, shift unhelpful thought patterns, and develop grounding techniques. Whether you experience panic, social anxiety, or constant worry, we’re here to help.
Alcohol Use
Alcohol use that feels out of control is often symptomatic of deeper, underlying issues. In sessions with Brenda, she will help identify the underlying causes and triggers of alcohol use, and how to manage urges when they present themselves.
